quite some time, I finally have a “girlfriend”. I was starting to get sick and tired of the single life, so I

gotta say this is a wonderful day for me. Her name is Laura and she is one hot chick. Almost too hot. Kinda

like how brandy was too hot for joe dirt. But I dont want to jinx it, so I will just shut my mouth and go

along for the ride.

We actually met at a coffee house. I was doing some work on my laptop when I

noticed her checking me out. And it was kinda out of character for me, but I figured, what the heck. So I

went over to her, sat down at her table, and just said, “Hi, Im Jake”. Surprisingly enough, that worked and

we started into a conversation, and one thing led to another, and before you knew it we had gone on a few

dates. It wasnt until today though that we decided to become an exclusive pair. Looks like some of my own

dating tips paid off for me

Jake

girls. “Well duh” I know you’re thinking, but when I say make friends with girls, I mean just that. Find

girls that you can be just friends with, enter the dreaded friend zone if you will. Now why on earth would

you just  want to be friends with somewhat attractive women? Im glad you asked because Im about to reveal a

secret weapon.

First off, when you have it in your mind that you want to be just friends with a women,

it makes things a lot easier when it comes to approaching them. The 2 hardest things that you will have to

overcome is 1, getting it in your mind that you want to be just friends. That can be extremely difficult on

its own, but is essential for the next hard step. Convincing the ladies that you really do want to be just

friends. Most women automatically think you are trying to game them, and I cant say that I dont blame them.

Us men are pretty notorious for that kinda thing. But it is vital that you make sure that you want to be just

friends, and make sure it stays that way.

Youve waited for the why, so here it is. If you can get a

handful of decent looking women to be your friends, then you can go “out” with them to pickup on chicks that

you really want to date. How does this work? Well, from what I have seen personally, women seem to like men

who are surrounded by other women, other good looking women like them. I dont know if its a jealousy thing or

if it just helps them feel more comfortable, but this does work like a champ. Plus when its all said and

done, and if youve done it right, you could end up with a bunch of really good friends that are girls. and

there aint nothing wrong with that!

Jake

seems no matter how hard I try, I cant seem to attract one. At least, none that I want to attract. Sure, I

have some ugly ones that seem to like me, but what good does that do me? Im not trying to be shallow, but Ive

always been a firm believer that you have to be attracted to someone if you want to get serious. I mean, if

you end up on taking the vows, could you really wake up to someone you’re not attracted to for the rest of

your life? No offense ladies, but no girl has that much personality.

So what is a guy like me supposed

to do when it comes to dating women? Ive had girlfriends in the past, and even a somewhat serious

relationship that ended in disaster. But as I get older, do I have the right to be picky when it comes to

dating women? Or am I just gonna have to settle for the next half decent chick that seems to show some

interest in me?

I dont know, what do you guys think? Do you tough it out to wait for the really hot

chick? Or do you just settle? That reminds me of a song I heard when I was a bit younger. It talks about how

if you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty women your wife. Maybe there is some

wisdom to be found in that song. Maybe when it comes to dating women and picking up girls, you should try to

go after just an average one?

Well, I think Im just frustrated right now, Im sure once I cool down

I’ll get back to my usual self and wont think about it too much. Or is that my usual self? ;D

Jake